{"id":279,"date":"2006-12-01T09:06:13","date_gmt":"2006-12-01T13:06:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/?p=279"},"modified":"2006-12-01T09:06:13","modified_gmt":"2006-12-01T13:06:13","slug":"civil-distortion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/?p=279","title":{"rendered":"Civil distortion"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eliding can be economical, but it can also be distortion.  When it is, it&#8217;s wrong.  Take this from the master of civility himself, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2006\/11\/29\/AR2006112901267.html\">George Will<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>>Wednesday&#8217;s Post reported that at a White House reception for newly elected members of Congress, Webb &#8220;tried to avoid President Bush,&#8221; refusing to pass through the reception line or have his picture taken with the president. When Bush asked Webb, whose son is a Marine in Iraq, &#8220;How&#8217;s your boy?&#8221; Webb replied, &#8220;I&#8217;d like to get them [sic] out of Iraq.&#8221; <strong>When the president again asked<\/strong> &#8220;How&#8217;s your boy?&#8221; Webb replied, &#8220;That&#8217;s between me and my boy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He says this in order to demonstrate <strong>Webb&#8217;s<\/strong> incivility.<\/p>\n<p>>Webb certainly has conveyed what he is: a boor. Never mind the patent disrespect for the presidency. Webb&#8217;s more gross offense was calculated rudeness toward another human being &#8212; one who, disregarding many hard things Webb had said about him during the campaign, asked a civil and caring question, as one parent to another.<\/p>\n<p>But the incivility here is Will&#8217;s, since he distorts <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2006\/11\/28\/AR2006112801582_pf.html\">the Post article<\/a> he refers to as evidence of Webb&#8217;s rudeness:<\/p>\n<p>>At a recent White House reception for freshman members of Congress, Virginia&#8217;s newest senator tried to avoid President Bush. Democrat James Webb declined to stand in a presidential receiving line or to have his picture taken with the man he had often criticized on the stump this fall. But it wasn&#8217;t long before Bush found him.<\/p>\n<p>>&#8221;How&#8217;s your boy?&#8221; Bush asked, referring to Webb&#8217;s son, a Marine serving in Iraq.<\/p>\n<p>>&#8221;I&#8217;d like to get them out of Iraq, Mr. President,&#8221; Webb responded, echoing a campaign theme.<\/p>\n<p>><strong>&#8220;That&#8217;s not what I asked you,&#8221; Bush said. &#8220;How&#8217;s your boy?&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>>&#8221;That&#8217;s between me and my boy, Mr. President,&#8221; Webb said coldly, ending the conversation on the State Floor of the East Wing of the White House.<\/p>\n<p>The emphasized portion is missing from Will&#8217;s account (even though his op-ed links to it).  The boor, in this account, is Bush, not Webb.  Webb&#8217;s response makes it obvious how his boy&#8211;and many other boys and girls&#8211;is doing: not very well, wanting to leave, wanting to come home. <\/p>\n<p> A more tactful President could have said simply, &#8220;so do I.&#8221;  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Eliding can be economical, but it can also be distortion. When it is, it&#8217;s wrong. Take this from the master of civility himself, George Will: >Wednesday&#8217;s Post reported that at a White House reception for newly elected members of Congress, Webb &#8220;tried to avoid President Bush,&#8221; refusing to pass through the reception line or have &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/?p=279\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Civil distortion<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-279","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general","category-will"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=279"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thenonsequitur.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}